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Good Grieving

Tony McKibbin reflects on how family loss is treated in recent films by Nanni Moretti, François Ozon and others.


Death and Weight Control
Something happened, the title of a Joseph Heller novel about, amongst other things, the death of the narrator's son, seems somehow the perfect phrase for dealing with sudden familial loss. And we can say that something happening, some apparently inexplicable act, often asking for no reason and yet demanding a response, is usefully explored in both Nanni Moretti's The Son's Room and François Ozon's Under the Sand, and also, more abstractly, in Raoul Ruiz's Comédie
de l'innocence
and Hirokazu Koreeda's Distance.

We might ask whether the films are simply using an easily lachrymose subject to milk the audience's emotions, or are they finding a deeper truth within the material, a truth that's revealed more fruitfully through familial loss than through a less emotionally devastating device? If we believe that manipulation would rest on the immediacy of loss, as opposed to reflective recollection, we might see that of the four films Moretti's and Ozon's are the more manipulative. In each instance the interest lies in the immediate - the lead up to the loss, the loss itself and its aftermath. But the films' diametrically opposed takes on grief suggests an escape from expectation and a search for the emotionally specific. In Moretti's film the fascination lies with a family in relation to a son's death; and in Ozon's film with a childless person (Rampling) coming to terms with her husband's (Bruno Cremer) disappearance. In Ozon's film we could say Rampling doesn't actually come to terms with his disappearance, that she in fact conjures up a fictitious husband to avoid having to deal with his absence. Thus Under the Sand has a certain calm missing from Moretti's film, or rather a calm that's reversed. Where in the first couple of scenes in Ozon's film we see a woman slightly irritated by her lumbering, hefty husband's presence as she dictates what he should eat, and the exercise he should take, after his disappearance he can more readily play the perfect husband by virtue of his absence. In Moretti, the perfect family is in place. Yes, there may be moments when the film questions its perfection - the son's involved in trouble at school - but these are crises of such minor significance it's clear Moretti's put them there to point up the glacial simplicity of the family's life. In Ozon's film, however, it's as if Rampling merely needed the husband's disappearance to perfect her icy isolation, almost as if her husband's heavy presence, so at odds with Rampling's carefully controlled leanness, disturbed the self-possessed cool of this advancingly middle-aged woman who goes down to the gym and cares about what she eats.

The full article is printed in Film Ireland 94